Pagou!!!....I think you are getting too personal She is just doing her Job, and her Job is to entertain listener and accompany listener whether they are drving or at home... The simple thing IS, if you don't like what she said, then turn other channel!!!!....
I like your info sharing and straight forward expression, I happen to listen to this part of broadcast from 10am to 1pm. I do agreed with your chide with a good intention to correct Xiao Ying and hope for her improvement from a different view point.
You are not wrong neither she had insult or humiliate those afraid of dogs intentionally.
I believe DJ Xiao Ying might have a slip of her tongue out of her love on her dog and does not really have the intention to humiliate or offend anyone who is afraid of dogs. She just wants to share her stories on dogs just as you have share you story on dogs here.
We should also try to understand that as a DJ, she might has unconsciously fallen into the common track or trade practice of bringing joy to brighten up the listeners day with interesting, funny, joyful, abnormal and extraordinary story from her experience, observation and lesson learned.
In the mid of controlling and balancing a stressful on-air timing and control panel, she might has miss out some part of her story detail and lead to these misunderstanding of 1) humiliate dog phobia and 2)becoming an unfilial daughter as you have mentioned.
This is the second time I happen to drop by her blog, and when I start to read her oldest blog, I am back! on 11/17/2006, I saw a picture of a dog and learned that she is a Taiwanese artiste having fans spread over 3 generations, humble and willing to learn.
So I believe she will be humble enough to accept your good intention and will improve herself and learned something from your story.
Further read through some of her blog, I can see that she love her father truly, a dog lover, and it is not her nature to humiliate people, so I believe she does not mean to insult anyone intentionally.
I hope you will be kind and gracious to forgive her, if there is, any mistake or error she had make un-intentionally in your point of views.
As DJ Xiao Ying have welcome all of us to her blog and hope that we will drop a note and tell her how we feel about anything that we care. I believe she is open to both good encouraging compliment and bad yet not insult type of critic.
She will be able to inspire and improve from both types of comments and feedbacks with good intention and care from her fans.
So pagou and Anonymous, it is nice that you have share these educational true story that remind us to beware of the hidden danger existed for keeping any pets, be it a dog or any others that have a beast nature.
It also reminds us, as a creature and human being, we too have a beast nature. When this beast nature is unchecked and become uncontrollable, it makes us a brutal, terrific, ugly unreasonable and contemptible person.
So we actually have to be aware of these hidden dangers exposure not only to our pets, but also to those around us if we are unlucky to meet with one.
Oh oh, sorry if I have unconsciously write too long for a comment.
Anyway, it is nice to know that some one care and voice out their opinion, hope to have more positive discussion in future.
I think all of us here care and would like to wish DJ Xiao Ying the best for her pursuit and accomplishment.
So DJ Xiao Ying, keep up the work well done, and I will support you in silence Thanks.
It will be appreciate if someone is able to translate the above in Chinese language, so pagou and Anonymous will be able to read it.
Sorry, I do not have the Chinese language software to write in Chinese, so need someone to translate just in case not every one is bilingual.
It is also nice to see that there are so many people visit your blog viewing from the number recorded since my first visit ten days ago on January 19, 2008.
I believe you too are a fan of DJ Xiao Ying, and glad that you do not mean to personal insult.
I think the whole hassle and misunderstanding arise due to the hasty words (你好自为之吧! and … others) you have add at the end of your comments, it do appear to be a bit hard and insult at first glance.
It is good that we all know each other better now through this interactive platform of DJ Xiao Ying blog, and be able to clarify whatever misunderstanding that may appear from different view points within her fans.
So let us not grudge over this small issue of misunderstanding and move on to stay tune and support DJ Xiao Ying program regardless of whether you are 爱狗族 or怕狗族 fans.
Sorry I can only copy and paste your Chinese words.
Hi bruce and Anonymous,
It is good that you two have voice out in support of DJ Xiao Ying and help to clarify some doubt on pagou, 怕狗.
Now we can understand why the impulsive and hasty words from pagou, they are people really afraid of dogs and at the same time they are also fans of DJ Xiao Ying.
I am sure DJ Xiao Ying will be very proud to have both 爱狗族 and怕狗族 fans.
So let us, both 爱狗族 and怕狗族 fans of DJ Xiao Ying, continue to stay tune and support DJ Xiao Ying.
Hi DJ Xiao Ying,
Thanks for your reply on January 21, 2008 12:03:00 PM SGT, I just read it yesterday. It is heart-warming to learn that you have put in your effort to read through and reply to our every comment. No wonder your blog visitor record number have jump to more than one thousand in a short period of ten days
Oh oh, hold on I think I could not find it anymore, it seem like there is a missing period from 14jan2008 to 19jan2008 in your blog. Please check.
I am still unable to constantly having the luxury to listen to your broadcast during that time slot, but will try to stay tune whenever possible.
All the best to you all A song asongsg@yahoo.com.sg
Hi, Pagou and all To be frank, I am very very scare of DOG and no matter how i try, i still don't like DOG anyway, What I trying to say is; Life is short, lets enjoy it!! Just engoy what you have and if things that you don't like, avoid it or try your best to understand the situation If I have hurt you then I am sorry!!, thank you all and one thing i must confess!!!, I only can read a little bit of Chinese...
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Hi Wendy
Pls call me. Tks
Wai Ling, Traders Hotel
对不起,我是有话直说,非常不满你昨天在空中取笑朋友如何怕狗,我可以想象一个男子汉当时尴尬的场面。身为主人,明知客人怕狗,就应该将狗栓起,怎么这么不尊重客人,让他献丑!甚至还要把来访的小朋友和狗轮流关半小时。如果我是你的朋友会马上离开,今后不会再上你家。在你的心目中真的是人不如狗??????
希望听众不会被你误导,若所有爱狗族都有样学样,学你将怕狗的朋友和狗轮流关半小时,那今后怕狗族的日子可不好过了!
爸爸被狗咬还洋洋得意说:不是狗的错,难道是爸爸的错,要爸爸赔罪?真是不孝女!!!!
昨天,我在报纸上看到一个消息,感到很可悲,一对可爱的双胞胎姐妹却被自己家里养的狗咬死了。而且被狗吃的体无完肤。
一对中年夫妇结婚七年一直没有生育,去年女主人却意外的发现自己怀孕了。夫妻俩真是高兴至极,在小孩没出生之前便买了好多漂亮的小衣服和玩具。天天盼望着这个小生命的来临。
在今年初,意想不到的是,女主人却顺利产下了一对双胞胎女孩,他老公高兴的连公司都不想去,几乎天天在家照顾她们母女三人。两个女儿一天比一天可爱,而且长的特别好看。温馨的生活让他们倍感满足。
前两天,男主人为公司很重要的一笔生意不得不去外地出差。把她们母女三人留在家里。临走时抱着两个女儿亲了又亲,再三叮嘱女主人好好照顾女儿,这才安心离开。
就在昨天上午,女主人发现奶粉不多了,就把两个还在熟睡的女儿关在家里,急匆匆的去超市买奶粉。就在此时,家里饿疯了的狼狗突然挣断了绳索,直奔卧室跑去(这两天女主人只忙着照顾宝贝女儿,却忘记喂狗了)。悲剧就这样发生了,卧室里传来婴儿凄惨的哭声。这对不到一岁的双胞胎就这样被狗撕咬着......
这时,女主人已从超市赶回来,走进卧室一看,卧室便地是血,两个女儿还被狗撕扯着,已经血肉模糊。她发疯似的扑向自己的女儿,叫唤着她们的名字,但是,已经晚了......她可爱的女儿再也回不到她的身边了。
一对可爱的双胞胎就这样被凶恶的狼狗给咬死了。
你好自为之吧!
时下在家养狗已成为了一种时尚,不少狗主人都认为自己养的狗很安全,其实并非如此。前天,家住荔湾的梁女士想从狗嘴里取走叼着的小物件时,没想到小狗松掉物品张开大口就直奔她的嘴唇咬去,直至鲜血淋漓,被紧急送到市二医院缝了10多针才脱离险情。
你好自为之吧!
Pagou!!!....I think you are getting too personal
She is just doing her Job, and her Job is to entertain listener and accompany listener whether they are drving or at home...
The simple thing IS, if you don't like what she said, then turn other channel!!!!....
Hi Pagou,
Are you afraid of dogs? If yes, I can help you to overcome this problem.
I understand how you feel when you read all the negative news about dogs but we also have to judge why and what made it happened.
Hope you don't mind me being direct. Thanks.
To: pagou
敢问兄台是否有被狗咬过的经历呢?不然何以对狗儿以及养狗的人家有如此大的成见呢?曾晓英自家养狗与你何干呢?何用你从旁指指点点、妄加评判?我介绍一部影片叫《Eight Below》的给你看,希望你看后能对狗儿有全新的认识!
Hi pagou and Anonymous,
I like your info sharing and straight forward expression, I happen to listen to this part of broadcast from 10am to 1pm. I do agreed with your chide with a good intention to correct Xiao Ying and hope for her improvement from a different view point.
You are not wrong neither she had insult or humiliate those afraid of dogs intentionally.
I believe DJ Xiao Ying might have a slip of her tongue out of her love on her dog and does not really have the intention to humiliate or offend anyone who is afraid of dogs. She just wants to share her stories on dogs just as you have share you story on dogs here.
We should also try to understand that as a DJ, she might has unconsciously fallen into the common track or trade practice of bringing joy to brighten up the listeners day with interesting, funny, joyful, abnormal and extraordinary story from her experience, observation and lesson learned.
In the mid of controlling and balancing a stressful on-air timing and control panel, she might has miss out some part of her story detail and lead to these misunderstanding of 1) humiliate dog phobia and 2)becoming an unfilial daughter as you have mentioned.
This is the second time I happen to drop by her blog, and when I start to read her oldest blog, I am back! on 11/17/2006, I saw a picture of a dog and learned that she is a Taiwanese artiste having fans spread over 3 generations, humble and willing to learn.
So I believe she will be humble enough to accept your good intention and will improve herself and learned something from your story.
Further read through some of her blog, I can see that she love her father truly, a dog lover, and it is not her nature to humiliate people, so I believe she does not mean to insult anyone intentionally.
I hope you will be kind and gracious to forgive her, if there is, any mistake or error she had make un-intentionally in your point of views.
As DJ Xiao Ying have welcome all of us to her blog and hope that we will drop a note and tell her how we feel about anything that we care. I believe she is open to both good encouraging compliment and bad yet not insult type of critic.
She will be able to inspire and improve from both types of comments and feedbacks with good intention and care from her fans.
So pagou and Anonymous, it is nice that you have share these educational true story that remind us to beware of the hidden danger existed for keeping any pets, be it a dog or any others that have a beast nature.
It also reminds us, as a creature and human being, we too have a beast nature. When this beast nature is unchecked and become uncontrollable, it makes us a brutal, terrific, ugly unreasonable and contemptible person.
So we actually have to be aware of these hidden dangers exposure not only to our pets, but also to those around us if we are unlucky to meet with one.
Oh oh, sorry if I have unconsciously write too long for a comment.
Anyway, it is nice to know that some one care and voice out their opinion, hope to have more positive discussion in future.
I think all of us here care and would like to wish DJ Xiao Ying the best for her pursuit and accomplishment.
So DJ Xiao Ying, keep up the work well done, and I will support you in silence Thanks.
It will be appreciate if someone is able to translate the above in Chinese language, so pagou and Anonymous will be able to read it.
Sorry, I do not have the Chinese language software to write in Chinese, so need someone to translate just in case not every one is bilingual.
It is also nice to see that there are so many people visit your blog viewing from the number recorded since my first visit ten days ago on January 19, 2008.
All the best to you
A song
asongsg@yahoo.com.sg
Anonymous!!!
没错!!!当我听到她父亲被狗咬后,还说不是狗的错时,我再也听不下去了,马上转台!
我只是让她知道我的听后感,难道有错吗?这博客应褒贬都能接受吧?
97.2节目主持人曾晓英:
首先我非常希望中文电台主持人能用中文与听众交流,除非听众先用英文和你沟通。要不中文很快就会在我们这"小红点“上消失了。
我是怕狗,所以署名pagou,我只是想让你知道你周围是有怕狗的朋友,应该尊重他们,不应只视狗如命,应该知道怕狗族不是他想怕狗,有些甚至得了怕狗综合症,看到狗就浑身发抖。我只担心晓英迷听了你的节目向你学习,那我们这群怕狗族的日子可难过了!
Hi,bruce,
我的确是被狗咬过,受了重伤,狗主人让狗自由活动,伤人后抱狗就逃。
曾晓英自家养狗的确与我无关,我无暇从旁指指点点、妄加评判。我是直截了当说出怕狗族的心声,行吗?
谢谢你介绍的影片,我会抽空找来看!
Hi,a song
您好!非常感谢您能了解我的心情,以很客观态度来分析这件事。
事先已知发表此意见一定会遭到许多爱狗族与晓英迷的攻击。我不是在做人身攻击,要不我可在‘有话自己说‘节目中大发言论,引发一场爱狗族与怕狗族的斗争。为了不想再得罪爱狗族与晓英迷,我就此闭嘴吧!
Hi pagou,
Thanks for your reply and greeting.
I believe you too are a fan of DJ Xiao Ying, and glad that you do not mean to personal insult.
I think the whole hassle and misunderstanding arise due to the hasty words (你好自为之吧! and … others) you have add at the end of your comments, it do appear to be a bit hard and insult at first glance.
It is good that we all know each other better now through this interactive platform of DJ Xiao Ying blog, and be able to clarify whatever misunderstanding that may appear from different view points within her fans.
So let us not grudge over this small issue of misunderstanding and move on to stay tune and support DJ Xiao Ying program regardless of whether you are 爱狗族 or怕狗族 fans.
Sorry I can only copy and paste your Chinese words.
Hi bruce and Anonymous,
It is good that you two have voice out in support of DJ Xiao Ying and help to clarify some doubt on pagou, 怕狗.
Now we can understand why the impulsive and hasty words from pagou, they are people really afraid of dogs and at the same time they are also fans of DJ Xiao Ying.
I am sure DJ Xiao Ying will be very proud to have both 爱狗族 and怕狗族 fans.
So let us, both 爱狗族 and怕狗族 fans of DJ Xiao Ying, continue to stay tune and support DJ Xiao Ying.
Hi DJ Xiao Ying,
Thanks for your reply on January 21, 2008 12:03:00 PM SGT, I just read it yesterday. It is heart-warming to learn that you have put in your effort to read through and reply to our every comment. No wonder your blog visitor record number have jump to more than one thousand in a short period of ten days
Oh oh, hold on I think I could not find it anymore, it seem like there is a missing period from 14jan2008 to 19jan2008 in your blog. Please check.
I am still unable to constantly having the luxury to listen to your broadcast during that time slot, but will try to stay tune whenever possible.
All the best to you all
A song
asongsg@yahoo.com.sg
对不起!a song,我当时真的是气昏了头,才会出言不恭,得罪你们,在此特向你们道歉!
同时也是想提醒她,狗毕竟是畜牲,不晓得哪天会发病,一旦发起病来,后果是不堪设想!
谢谢您比当事人更积极,一早便给我回复!
Hi, Pagou and all
To be frank, I am very very scare of DOG and no matter how i try, i still don't like DOG
anyway, What I trying to say is; Life is short, lets enjoy it!!
Just engoy what you have and if things that you don't like, avoid it or try your best to understand the situation
If I have hurt you then I am sorry!!, thank you all and one thing i must confess!!!, I only can read a little bit of Chinese...
Cheerssss
Come on Pagou, why are you taking this so seriously? Xiao Ying just joking only mah. DJ also human being wat. No body is perfect.
大人不记 "小英" 过. 非也,非也.
Don't angry OK!
:)
Thanks everyone! Let's move on :)
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